Meet people, chat with friends, express yourself.Fun, safe, easy to use. Flirt, chat, date and view pics on your cell phone or online.
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How to Crush
What is BigCafe
A place to meet people, express yourself and stay connected with friends.
Get Started
BigCafe™is the fastest way to meet new people. Just click the button, Add as Friend or Crush’m if that makes sense.
My profile
Latest Gifts
Check out your gifts….if you’ve got friends, you probably have gifts and you may just have a secret admirer.
Messages
View your messages here.
Comments
Read, post or delete your comments.
Friend requests
Just accept to include more friends and communicate safely
Crushed me
Crush them back to become friends and you can start texting anonymously.
Live chat
Start chatting right away in our chatrooms…no Friends or Crushes needed!
Coin bank
Coins are the BigCafe™currency and the key to premium services, especially gifts. Send gifts to anybody you want – current friend, future friend or simply flirty friend. Send a Shout Out to all the members or just express yourself through emoticons or voicemail.
Coins are also easy to get – just click on your Coin bank, add coins and follow the instructions from there. Pick the payment method that works for you: credit card, mobile phone bill, CrushorFlush Fastcard at Speedway stores, Western Union, or Paypal. You also get Coins when you register, invite a friend, upload a pic, or through a number of other community building activities.
Level
The more you play, the higher your level. You get points (and coins) when you register, create a profile, upload pics, etc.
Voice messages
Why limit chat to text only? Listen and leave behind voicemail as the best way to stay in touch
Invite code
Place this code anywhere you like – Facebook page, Myspace, Twitter,…then, if anybody signs up with that code, you get lots of Coins!
Friend Finder
Just what it says….find your friends. Just type in the details and we’ll search for you. Bring them over to see your page if you like. It’s that easy.
Left buttons
Tell a friend
Share your profile with others. Type in their cell# or email and they’ll get a message with a link to your profile.
Settings
Here’s where you can change password or adjust contact settings.
Edit profile
Add or change photos, add a voice profile, add a wishlist or adjust other details.
At page bottom
Who Crushed me
Crush them back and you become friends and can start texting anonymously.
People I’ve Crushed
Use it as a favorites list while browsing – you can always try a gift to increase the chances of a reply.
My Comments
A simple list to find your friends quickly
AFTER CLICKING ON “Get Started”…..
Add as Friend
You can add someone as a friend right off the bat. Once they accept your invite, you become instant friends and can start texting anonymously or leaving comments.
Crush
Not quite ready yet? Then go ahead and Crush them. If they Crush you back, you become immediate friends and can start texting anonymously or sending comments.
Flush
Hit Flush if you’re not interested. They’ll never know you flushed them so no hard feelings.
Quick links
- gift
Wanna get their interest - send them a gift. No Crush or Friend Add needed and everybody likes gifts! Don’t forget to gift your old friends as well, especially on birthdays
- msg
Instant and easy but no messaging until you’ve become friends. - Send pic
Choose pics and send to friends
- VM
Click to leave a message using your cell phone then feel free to stay and listen to other profiles
Flag as inappropriate
Inappropriate behavior? Flag them and we’ll take care of it.
Tell a friend
See somebody that might be interesting to a friend of yours? Send the profile to your friend by cell# or email and they’ll receive a message with a link to that profile.
Snag a tag/flag
If you see a tag that you want, just click on it to snag. You’ve got 8 slots for tags so if your slots are full, you’ll need to drop a tag to add a new one.
Block
If, for whatever reason, you don’t want to hear from them any more
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Photos
Click here and zoom in to their photos.
Comments
See what others have to say about (or to) someone. Maybe leave a comment yourself if you’re friends.
Friends
Friend list for others to see
Right column
Showing
Choose who you’re looking for by gender, orientation, age and location.
Find your friends
We make it easy to find any of your current friends on BigCafe. Just a few steps and your done!
Your messages
See a list of all the people who you’ve chatted with. Chat works like e-mail and IM. You can send messages back and forth without being online and you’ll see a running conversation with each person so you know where you left off last. (No more tellin' the same joke twice)
